Relationships are expressions of yourself in love. Marriage is a container for that love, however, sometimes the romantic love gets squeezed out of the marriage or relationship and differences divide the couple. The distance from each other is difficult to understand and the walls and defences become the norm. Conflict or silence cannot be tolerated.
With a loved one, we see all our best behaviour and our worst. Our potential to love, to argue, to be intimate, and to reject is apparent in our behaviour.
We may find it difficult to find or to stay in a relationship and unable to understand the cause. With the help of a therapist, we can discover what is not working and what needs changing. By identifying patterns from the past and taking responsibility for our role in the dynamic, we can work through the issues in a new way.